Shouldn't I be complaining?

Of late I have been seeing the behavior of a few friends change. That could be just my thought or that could be reality. I would tend to think they are as I see them. I will quote a few instances and you decide for yourself.

Let me start with KS. We have been very good friends for quite sometime. But I have seen some changes in him in the last few months. There have been quite some instances -

He had a self imposed ban on him from drinking and as a friend we (we here refers to a group) never forced him. But one day while travelling to a friend's marriage he didn't refuse on being asked by a guy we met only the second time.

He used to find time for friends but since getting engaged (almost) he has been it seems always on phone. So busy that he didn't even pick a phone of a bus mate who was running a little late.

We were watching movies. In the interval we asked him to bring us some nachos and pepsi to which he refused. Had he been asked by a girl or a relatively new friend he would have brought it.

Earlier he was game for parties but now he always comes up with a 'NO' one way or the other. Not that he doesn't go to parties but its just he prefers going with his team rather than friends.

Earlier he wouldn't mind attending parties even if he himself had to host one. But now suddenly he can't afford to party citing reason that he doesn't have money. But he has the money to finance his fiancé's trip and also to give party to his new project team for no reason whatsoever.

We were on bench for sometime and had loads of fun. He got a project a few days back and since then he has turned busy with little or no work. He prefers sitting on his seat doing nothing rather than sit or go out with friends.

Enough of KS I guess. Lets talk about SS. We were in together in my last project and were a close knit team. One day I saw his status on gtalk saying "Boston, USA". I was surprised and pinged him. He said he had just come. When I asked him why he didn't say anything before leaving he gave all sort of excuses.

Moving over to SG. We are friends since XII standard. Its been some time since we are in regular contact but once a while we do talk. But for last few months he had almost disappeared. I got the news of him getting a job from a common friend. He never bothered to call and share the good news.

Then there's SD. She went to UK on a 2 weeks trip but that got extended. And she didn't even bother to tell this.

There's another SG who is married now and in Bangalore. She booked a new car. she had been telling about buying the car all along but when the day of arrival of the car finally came she didn't bother to share the news. That again came from a common friend.

It seems I am complaining. Well I am; I have a right to do so. I can understand friends not wanting to share bad news but not wanting to share a good news is strange. At least for me. I will be waiting for your comments.